Everything in life is connected somehow. You may have to dig deep to find it but its there. If something bad happen to you, it will somehow connects back with your life and your community. The faces in certain places maybe different, but the situation is still the same.
Look at how things are different yet somehow everything is still in someway similar. Everthing connects together to form the balance of life, to mantain structure of our community. Change is and always will be inevitable, but everything is connected, and all the moments and times in your life will come back around again. You just might find yourself on the other side of the coin. Things are always changing, it is only you who can decide whether you want to change or not. we as community will always support you.
You do not know until you try...